How to See Yourself Through God’s Eyes

The Battle for Our Identity in a Digital Age

Social media has warped our perception of self-worth. In an instant, we’re flooded with messages that shape the narrative we tell ourselves about our identity in Christ.

If we’re already struggling with feelings of shame, insecurity, or unworthiness, these messages can magnify those emotions, causing us to lose sight of who we are in God’s eyes.

I’ve personally wrestled with this. Between the expectations of others and the standards I set for myself, it was easy to get caught up in the world’s definition of success—both professionally and personally.

But here’s the truth: We are responsible for our thoughts, emotions, and actions. We can’t blame social media alone for how we see ourselves. However, we are not left without help.

The Lord meets us in our vulnerable moments. He provides His Spirit to guide us, and His Word to anchor us.

So if you’re in a place where you’re questioning your worth, ask yourself:

• What would it look like to see myself the way God sees me?
• How can I consistently remind myself of my identity in Christ, despite my past mistakes?

How the World and Our Past Influence Us

We live in a world that constantly pressures us to measure up. Society—and even the enemy’s schemes—try to distort our identity, making it difficult to walk in the freedom God intended.

This isn’t an easy battle. Our culture conditions us to seek validation in performance, appearance, and approval from others. Whether we like it or not, these influences affect us.

But here’s the key: We choose how we measure our worth.

As believers, God’s Word must be our standard—not the fleeting opinions of the world.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2

The Power of Scripture in Renewing Your Mind

Spending time in God’s Word transforms how we see ourselves. Even reading Scripture a few times a week can radically change your self-talk, heal past wounds, and reshape your self-image.

When we replace the lies of the enemy with the truth of God, we step into freedom.

How God Sees You (and What That Means for Your Life)

So, how does God actually see you? The Bible is clear:

1. You Are Loved Unconditionally

God’s love isn’t based on performance—it’s freely given.

“For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:38-39

Nothing can separate you from His love. You are deeply valued, no matter what you’ve done.

2. You Are Created in His Image

Your worth is not earned—it’s intrinsic.

“So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.” – Genesis 1:27

You bear God’s handprint—you were intentionally made and carry eternal significance.

3. You Have Purpose in Your Struggles

God can use even your hardest seasons for good.

Your struggles don’t disqualify you—they equip you. God refines us through challenges so we can help others and grow spiritually.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” – Romans 8:28

4. Your Past Does Not Define You

Your identity isn’t in your past mistakes—it’s in God’s redemption.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

Your redemption story is not something to be ashamed of. It’s a powerful testimony of God’s grace.

I used to fear sharing my past. But now? I see it as an opportunity to give God glory and encourage others. I don’t air everything to everyone, but I share when God leads me—because our stories are meant to bring hope to others.

And that’s freedom. Living unashamed. Never going back. All glory to God!

How to Align Your Perspective with God’s Daily

Now, how do you actually start seeing yourself through God’s eyes? Here are four practical steps:

1. Spend Time in Scripture Daily

The first thing I ask any man struggling is:
“Are you in the Word?”

Spiritual transformation begins with God’s truth, not worldly affirmations.

For years, I called myself a “good Christian”—but I wasn’t consistently in the Word. When I finally prioritized it, everything changed.

2. Break Negative Thought Patterns with Gratitude

If you’re stuck in sin, shame, or negativity, you need to replace that focus.

Gratitude shifts your mindset. Instead of dwelling on failures, focus on God’s goodness. Write down at least three things you’re grateful for every day—it rewires your brain.

3. Surround Yourself with Godly Community

Feeling isolated? Find a strong Christian community.

I used to get discouraged by the lack of support in my life. But then I realized: I had to keep searching. God used different people at different times to guide me.

Don’t give up on finding the right people. Keep praying. Keep looking. God has a place for you.

4. Ask God to Show You How He Sees You

Sit in silence. Invite the Holy Spirit to speak to your heart.

Then, write it down—your prayers, your thoughts, and what God reveals. These moments become powerful reminders of His faithfulness.

Final Thoughts

My heart is so big for you on this journey.

When I finally saw how I had been partnering with the enemy in my self-talk, it changed everything. I realized:

• I wasn’t treating myself with the same grace God gave me.
• I wasn’t walking in His truth—I was believing lies.
• I needed healing and actionable change.

I don’t know where you are today, but I pray you’ll take time to reflect. Evaluate your self-talk, challenge the lies, and let God rewrite your identity in Him.

If you’re looking for support on this journey, I’d love to connect! Reach out anytime.

God bless!